Playing Hard To Get With Women: Don’t Overdo It

It’s no secret that “playing hard to get” is one of the most effective ways to keep a woman interested in you.  When you play hard to get you prevent yourself from giving too much, too soon, while at the same time, you cloak yourself in a cloud of mystery to make her want to know more about you.

Here are some common examples of playing hard to get:

  • You tell her “maybe” anytime she asks you to hang out with her
  • You wait 5 days before you call her, call her back, or text her back
  • You avoid giving her any compliments whatsoever
  • You don’t give her any personal information about yourself when she asks
  • You preoccupy yourself anytime she is talking to you
  • You make it a point to keep your conversations short
  • You act emotionally unaffected whenever she tries to make you jealous

When you play hard to get, what you’re trying to do is raise her level of interest by teasing her every now and then.

Does playing hard to get work?

Yes and no. The most important thing to remember about playing hard to get is to use common sense. The truth is, there is a very big difference between being a mystery and being an idiot.  If you play too hard to get, she will actually lose interest instead of gain interest in you.

So how far should you go when playing hard to get?

It depends.

It varies from woman to woman—but generally speaking, the more mature she is, and the more she knows exactly what kind of man she wants, the less she will put up with your “games.”  No matter the woman though, it should be common sense that there’s only so much abuse a person can take. Think about it—how many “games” would you put up with before you finally decide to give up?

The reason I bring all of this up is that I just talked to this girl who said she just stopped talking to a guy she was dating because he was playing too hard to get with her.  She told me she’s dated enough guys like that and could see right through his games. In the end, she decided she didn’t want to waste her time on immaturity.

So the verdict: strike a good balance between being a challenge and keeping her interested. Playing hard to get can be very effective in moderation, but just make sure you’re not overdoing it and shooting yourself in the foot.

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