make a girl feel special

Make A Girl Feel Special

To make a girl feel special, it’s not about what great pick up lines you use or what fancy restaurants you take her to.  You can use every pick up line in the book and take her to all the fancy restaurants in town and you’ll still find that these things don’t do anything to make a girl feel special.

So how do you make a girl feel special?

Well, for one thing, it all comes down to sacrifice.  You have to come to terms with sacrificing your comfort or sacrificing your time.  If you’re unable to sacrifice either of these, then you won’t make a girl feel special—instead, you’ll make her feel like she’s just like everyone else.

Here are 5 things you can do to make a girl feel special that follow along the lines of sacrificing comfort and sacrificing time:

1. Show her the real you

This might sound obvious, but it’s something that most guys actually fail to do because it’s out of their comfort zone.  Showing her the real you means not being the guy that you present yourself as or the guy that you pretend to be in front of the crowd.  If you want to make her feel special, show her how you are when you’re not with your friends.  Show her that she’s special enough to see your dorky side that you never let anyone else see.

2. Listen to her

A simple way to make a girl feel special is to focus all the attention on her.  Girls love to talk, especially about themselves, so let her do all the talking.  It might not be what you’re used to, but make sure you don’t interject or interrupt her.  Don’t think about what you’re going to say next.  Remember, the spotlight is on her.  Let her talk about her likes, passions, hobbies and interests and actively listen to her.  Not only will this make her feel like she has a deep connection with you, it will also help you get ideas for things you can do to surprise her.

3. Surprise her

Surprise her with the little things by using all of the information she’s given you about her likes, passions, hobbies and interests.  Surprise her with Skittles if that’s her favorite candy.  Surprise her by taking her to an art gallery if she’s interested in art.  You don’t have to get her a MacBook just because she said she likes Apple products and you don’t have to get her plane tickets to Paris just because she’s fascinated with the Eiffel Tower.  The little things always add up to produce a bigger effect.

4. Don’t talk about other girls

Some guys think that talking about other girls to imply that you’re in high demand will make a girl feel special.  Actually, this does exactly the opposite, and makes you look extremely pathetic.  You’re not supposed to be talking that much anyways, and if you bring other girls into the picture, you’ll just be sabotaging yourself.

5. Make time to spend with her

Take a day off work or sacrifice hanging out with the boys once in a while and spend time with her.  This will show a girl that even though you have other priorities, you put her first and will  time for her no matter what.   Simply spending time with her is quite possibly the best way to make a girl feel special.


How do you usually make a girl feel special?  Is there anything you’d like to add to this list for how to make a girl feel special? Comments are always appreciated and encouraged. Thanks!!

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One Response to “Make A Girl Feel Special”

  1. vincent
    8:18 am on July 2nd, 2011

    this is a line i use all the time to make a girl fell special,Excuse me, I don’t want you to think I’m ridiculous or anything, but you are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. I just felt like I had to tell you.

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