Are you curious about the best way to sexually attract women? In this article we are going to talk about five top tips for attracting women, which will give you a great primer in how to sexually attract women.
The steps on how to sexually attract women seems to totally evade most guys. It is OK, though, the steps do not need to be burned into a guys natural instincts. How to sexually attract women is something that any guy can learn, and even master with very little practice needed.
The fact that a guy even “worries” about sexually attracting a women in fact can cause her to be a little bit turned off. Frustration and insecurity are caused by a guy who doubts he has, “the stuff” to really attract the woman he desires. The problem is that women can smell that fear from a mile away and it just makes them less attracted.
Let’s now go on to talk about five top tips for attracting women.
Confidence around Women It is one of those ironic things in life that the thing you need most to be successful with women is… success with women. Women love guys that are at ease and comfortable around them. Guys that are full of confidence around women. Often these guys are ones that have had a lot of success with women. When you’re self confident you are going to make women very attracted to you.
Having some success with women will slowly build your confidence around them. So over time simply achieving success will make you more successful. But you still have to start somewhere. There are many guides on how to build self-confidence around women. There are tips from body-language to having a wing-man to bolster your confidence, but most of those go beyond the scope of this article.
Some quick down and dirt tips for appearing confident around women.
- Hold eye contact when talking to her
- Hold your back strait and your head high
- Control “nervous” fidgeting
- Be “forward” talking to her; but play it carefully as not to seem too, “fast”
- Try to think to yourself that she is lucky to be talking to YOU; not the other way around.
These are far from the “whole story” on how to sexually attract women by increasing your confidence around them, but it give you a good place to start.
High Status Attitude If you have ever looked around the rock stars and all the guys that have the women you will notice that they have one thing in common. No I’m not talking about the money and the fame. Even if you took away all the money and the fame they would still have the girl. The reason is because they have a high status attitude.
This could be seen as part of “confidence” but it is really much more than that.
The guy with a “high status” attitude is not generally a jerk. They just subtly let you know they are something, “special”. People look up to them. Guys want to be them, girls want to be with them. When they talk to a girl (or another guy) there is another subtle subtext that they are being nice taking some time out for you. Sometimes this is considered being the Alpha-Male in a group. It is a lot harder to “fake,” but it is also doable once you have the basic confidence to try and pull it off. The nice benefit is that like confidence this is something that you can actually, “grow into” and the positive effects can spillover into success in life and business.
Having a high status attitude and the girls will be flocking to your side.
Pace Physical Interaction When you are speaking with a woman and you want to get closer to her you should not act like a raving idiot or a sex crazed animal. Instead of acting like this it is wise to pace the physical interaction.
What I mean by this is maybe during the conversation you want to make a point you could just simply touch her hand and see how she reacts. If she reacts positively then you can take a step further the next time. When you allow her to have her space but still show that you are interested in physical interaction she is going to be more sexually attracted you.
Connect With Her Passion One of the things that guys totally miss when trying to sexually attract women is connecting with the girl’s passion. They do not understand that if they can simply connect with the girl’s passion and speak with her knowledgeably about it there going to be leaps and bounds ahead of other guys that totally don’t pay attention. Whenever women open up and talk about their passion you should talk about it to because then they will become passionately connected you.
Connecting with her passion should not be difficult if you have a few minutes to talk with her. First simply engage in some small-talk with the girl. The next step is all about active listening which is an essential part of attracting women. In a few words, active listening is about really listening to the words she says, interacting and keeping her going. It is about getting her to say things that are important, meaningful and true.
Once you have even a minimal skill at active listening figuring out her passions should be easy. If you enjoy things she is passionate about, it then simply becomes the two of you talking about what you really enjoy. If you do not share her passions just continue to ask questions and actively listen.
In a study a few years back they polled a series of travelers. Half of the group were not supposed to talk to the person next to them. the other half were supposed to say nothing about themselves but ask all sorts of engaging questions of their seatmates. In interviews of the test subjects afterward the guys that asked questions were viewed as “far more interesting“ even though they had said nothing about their personal lives.
Active listening and questions about her passions alone will help to both sexually attract the woman and really connect with her passion.
Have Top Notch Hygiene Maybe you think the you already have top-notch hygiene. Okay, that’s great if you do but you should make sure that you always have kept your breath nice, have showered and do not have any bodily odors coming off you whatsoever. Keeping your hair nice and wearing clothes that have been washed with the past month are also a plus.
Hopefully this last one is a “no-brainer.” But still it does need to be said.
These are just some simple tips when it comes to how to sexually attract women. Try them and you will see the you get great success.
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